Tag: heartbreak

Which Shall It Be? Compazine or Zofran?

Hyperemesis I know that I sound like a broken record, but my face glows red like a beacon at sea whenever I look back on how I did that humiliating ‘pick-me!” dance when my husband dumped me after decades of marriage. Lord have mercy!…

Better Living Through Chemistry? Your Brain May Actually Be Working Against You In Matters Of The Heart

There’s A Mad Chemist At Work According to Helen Fisher PhD, the physical pain that people feel when they have been rejected is very real. Her research has shown that when emotional attachments and love addictions become entrenched, neurology within the brain changes. Once…

Semper Fidelis … Psych!

One Down … One To Go … Check! Prior to his departure, Casper The Ghost held two jobs—he was the IT systems administrator for ywo different multi-million dollar corporations. On D-Day, as he was walking down the sidewalk to leave me, I heard him…

The Big Gotcha!

Just Another Day In Camelot, Or Was It? Obviously, for my husband Casper to ghost me the way he did, he must’ve deemed there were a number of issues with our marriage—at least from his perspective. However, this was news to me. Always a…

It All Came Down Like A House Of Cards

Just When You Think It’s Safe To Come Out Of The Water If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that you never know what will happen when you get up in the morning. I say this because just a few short years ago I was…

Yee Haw! I Wasn’t His First Rodeo

My Major Mistake Hands down, I was a very easy ‘mark’ for Mr. Cheater Pants—especially due to the fact that I wasn’t his first rodeo. Imagine that …a person who ghosts a long-term marriage having a shady side? Well, butter my biscuit! In all…

In Memory Of Little Red Riding Hood

What’s In A Name? We’ve all heard that old saying that sticks and stones will break one’s bones. Some people get all wrapped around the axle when they get called names. Boo hoo … Tito, hand me a tissue. Not me. I’m okay with…