Category: Perspectives

Trust Me Sweetie, You Don’t Want To Go To That Kind Of Dance

Just Say No To The ‘Pick Me’ Dance Ladies and/or gentlemen, should you ever find yourselves as a veritable ‘dump-ee’—suddenly thrown to the curb by an affairing/departing ‘dump-er‘—learn by my mistake. Don’t ever lower yourself to grovel—not even once! Please, please, please, learn from my…

Calm Down Ricky Road Rage!

You’ve seen them. You may know some of them. You may even be one of them. I honestly can’t relate to these poor souls getting so wrapped around the axle. It appears that they believe that driving a vehicle and defending one’s lane on the highway is apocalyptic warfare. Warfare that they must win at all costs. Goodness!

Hey! Did You Hear Me? I Said You Can Never Go Home Again. Got it?!

Tempted By The View In The Rear View Mirror At one time or another, I think we all get tempted to revisit our pasts and reopen old wounds—even when we know we shouldn’t. In 2014—a good three years after my husband left—I did just…

Better Living Through Chemistry? Your Brain May Actually Be Working Against You In Matters Of The Heart

There’s A Mad Chemist At Work According to Helen Fisher PhD, the physical pain that people feel when they have been rejected is very real. Her research has shown that when emotional attachments and love addictions become entrenched, neurology within the brain changes. Once…